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would he break off a relationship once he sees he can not perform? With really no explanation?

He already left the relationship telling me he had found the perfect person. l never said a word about the problem but he kept saying it could not be just sex. He avoided sex for a long time and now this is what came of it. Would someone leave a relationship because they couldn't't perform?


 

If a man has erectile dysfunction and very small(if you know what I mean) 61 yr.old

i once dated someone that had a problem like that & when it happened we talked about it & tried to fix the problem figure out what happens when the erectile dysfunction occurs. talking about it is key also by letting him know its not his fault will make it easier for him to open up about it. but, u also can not keep bring it up because then he feels as if he is worthless & not a real man because he can not get it up. but for him to just go & be with someone else is just avoiding the whole thing because what makes him think that it wo not happen with this other person. this may be how he has dealt with this his whole life by just avoiding it. he will never tell u or anyone else that it has happen before he will just say ''that is the first time that has happen do not know why''.he is truly embarrassed. hope some of that helped but do not beat you're self up about it.